It is never easy when you feel like you lose something that you feel is important to you. There is a reason for why it might be being taken away from you, even if you can’t see it right away. Yes, it may hurt, but in the long run it might just be the best thing that happened.
Asides
Progress in Perspective
People seem to get caught up in the fact that they are not a the ultimate goal of the journey that they forget about and don’t realize all the progress that they have made toward it. They look at what they don’t have and not what they do have.
Wall of change
Sometimes change can seem slow, like it isn’t happening. You may not feel that change until the right moment and when that happens, it can hit you like a brick wall.
Growth
In order to grow, you are going to have to get out of your comfort zone. You are going to have to do things that aren’t easy. Once those things start to feel more natural, you know you’ve made some progress. There are places recently that I have really felt this.
Change doesn’t change
There will always be changes. You may not understand the reason behind them, but change is one of the only constant things in life.
Self-Edit
People self-edit what they choose to post online. What you are seeing is the highlight reel. It might not be an indicator of what really is going on in their life.
Focus
If you are always focusing on what you don’t have, you’ll never appreciate what you do have.
The Struggle Is Real… Good
Even though it may seem that struggles may not be too good of a thing, but you can learn from those struggles and they will prepare you for something better.
Internet is Public
Almost everything on the Internet really is public. Don’t post anything, even if you think it is private, that you wouldn’t say in public. People will find it and may try to do something about it.
Resolve to make good resolutions
I think that having a New Year’s Resolution/goal/whatever you want to call it is not a bad idea. However, you have to make it something that is attainable. I feel that some on the resolutions made are just too far of a stretch or setting people up for failure that they are not good ones to make.
Mike J. Steele 
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